Hi all, I discovered a new book from Babyphil called 'My Life in Diapers' and it is good reading; sort of a good bed side book before sleeping. A love story yet a book about the problems of being a 24/7 diaper wearer from almost birth. Babyphil seems to understand a diapered life style and how its consequences can ruin life with others if you can't find support from family and friends or even partners. I have linked Babyphil's books onto this page so you can check them all out and they are available in book form or electronic media such as Kindle.

armyboi

Hi fellow bedwetters. It has been a while since i have added to my blog; mainly because I am working weired and wonderful shifts at work and find it hard to get onto the computer these days. So, what has happened to me these past few months?

Wetting a diaper while you sleep is nothing new for bedwetters; it is part of who we are and an unconscious act on our part. What I really hate is when the diaper leaks and the bedding becomes saturated. To overcome this, I wear plastic or vinyl over pants. On 99% of cases, I awake with a wet diaper and a dry bed, but 1% of the time I must wet on my side and this causes the urine to seep out through the elastic legs or out the back of the over pant. Yep it happened last night again. So as you can imagine the bedding is all in the washer at the moment. My male partner; I'm gay if you didn't know; does not like my being diapered but puts up with me as we are in love. I feel sorry for him when I wet the bedding as it is he who wakes up uncomfortable and then wakes me up from my deep sleep.

I have always tried to overcome this situation but even the best quality over pants will not stop the odd problems of leakage. It all depends on where you are lying at the time it all happens. Somehow I always seam to urinate in my sleep when on my side. Mostly it is contained but as I have said, there are the odd moments of embarrassment. Anyone else have these problems? How have you overcome them? I would love to hear from you through this blog.

armyboi

Diaper stories by Babyphil - This new book on the market is a collection of short stories, a full novelette and also help on diapering, fitting diapers correctly, help on diaper rashes and general diaper health. It is distributed through Amazon and is available in book form as well as through Kindle. It is a must for all Adult babues, Diaper Dads and Diaper Lovers.

Soft cover book form

http://www.amazon.com/Diaper-Stories-Compendium-short-stories/dp/1466229896/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1349905716&sr=1-1&keywords=Babyphil

Kindle Version

http://www.amazon.com/Diaper-Stories-II-ebook/dp/B008OLV5CO/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1349905716&sr=1-2&keywords=Babyphil

I have read this book myself and the stories are not beyond belief as many usually are. For dads they would make a great before bed reading to their AB sons and daughters, although it is aimed mainly at the gay AB. It is well priced, but of course the postage always costs. The Kindle version is much cheaper and an instant download. There are graphics on diapering methods, folding and forms of cloth diapering. I hope you all suport this author as he has produced a wonderfull reference and story book for the AB/DL community.

Feeling ashamed

Do you feel ashamed of being a bedwetter? Most bedwetters do as they feel they are in some way deficient in life; maybe insecure or just week. But we shouldn't feel that way. Most bedwetters not only wet the bed, but can wet their pants during the day as well. It is not something they enjoy, rather it is a weakness in their bladder and signals from the nerves in the bladder not reaching the brain with sufficient information for the brain to react and instruct us to do something.

I work as a bus driver. I may be in the seat driving for periods in excess of 5 hours at a time. I have tried not to wear a diaper while working, but I always end up embarrassing myself most days. To wear a diaper is not embarrassing for me. It has become a necessity. A wet diaper is more comfortable than wet pants and underwear. It is the same when sleeping. A wet diaper overcomes the embarrassment of a wet and often cold bed. A diaper can be disposed of whereas a wet bed requires the bedding to be washed. It's as simple as ABC; wear a diaper if you have a wetting problem and avoid any embarrassment. By wearing clothing to hide the fact that you have a diaper on, normally will hide the fact that you are a diaper wearer and few if any will notice. I have worn diapers to work for 12 years now, and not one person has ever asked me if I wear.

Vinyl bedding protection

It's been several weeks now since I received my new vinyl matress cover and vinyl top sheet. I cover the matress cover with a normal sheet and then a sheet between me and the upper vinyl sheet. Even in a tropical climate, they are comfortable and now I feel fully protected should my diapers accidentally leak overnight. My bedding is now safe. It's easy to just throw the sheets into the washing machine and dryer and have them back on the bed the same day. My biggest problem before was not the matress, as that was always covered and protected, but my quilt would become stained and would have an odor. It was more difficult to wash the quilt, usually having to have it sent to the dry cleaners as my washing machine could not handle the bulk.

The vinyl bedding is available so go hunting for it. It is soft and comfortable and can be hidden within your bedding so nobody except you will know.

Little accidents

Little accidents happen. Even when you are diapered up, little accidents can happen. I was diapered and had plastic pants covering my diaper, but as I was asleep when my body decided my bladder had to release, I flooded and my diaper could not take so much liquid all at once, so some leaked out and I wet the bed. It amazes me that you can take so many precautions and yet still wake up with a wet bed. I am used to it now, but many still worry or get upset about it. All I can say is don't. Little accidents happen, and if you get angry with yourself then you are too hard on yourself. Just accept it as an accident and put it behind you. It will happen dispite all your attempts to make sure it doesn't. That;s life I supose so you should just go with the flow and be happy when you wake up with a wet diaper and a dry bed.

gear for bedwetters

Well it is that time again, the time to buy new gear to overcome bed wetting. I have bought 4 new training pants, 3 flannel lined and one terry lined (trying terry out) a couple of new vinyl pants to replace a couple of pairs that have started to harden through use, and some bedding, as well as a couple of cloth diapers.

Bedding is just as important as the diaper to overcome bed wetting. Sure you have got a diaper on, maybe even vinyl pants or training pants over the top of the diaper, but there is always the chance of leakage, even if remote. I always cover my mattress in a vinyl sheet, but recently I did have a major leak while sleeping and although the mattress was protected, the top sheet and dooner was not. I always protect my pillow with a vinyl pillowslip covered with a pollycotton slip cover, but not my dooner. Well this time the dooner was affected, so now I have ordered a flat vinyl sheet to go between the top sheet and the dooner. I have also ordered a vinyl mattress protector which is an envelope that zips the mattress inside fully protecting the mattress from liquids and also bugs (don't let the bed bugs bite) and good for allergy sufferers.

So, for those regular bed wetters or those wanting full protection, a vinyl envelope mattress protector costs about $80 a flat sheet (mine is a king size) around $40 and 2 pillow covers in vinyl around $30 so all up $150 and you have full protection for at least 4 years before having to maybe replace. Should you have a leakage, then only the sheets have to be washed and any odor can be wiped away on the vinyl.

There are many styles of mattress protection, plastic, vinyl and nylon. Personally I prefer the vinyl. maybe it's because I have a great liking for vinyl (maybe even a fetish like) but I find plastic tears after a short while, and nylon just doesn't feel right to me. I wear vinyl pants over my diapers preferring the better softer grades, so a little more expensive. I live in the northern tropics of Australia so heat is a problem, but I do not have any problems sleeping on a vinyl sheet. I like the feel of the vinyl sheet below me and the security knowing my mattress is fully protected. So next time you are looking to replace some items, check out the vinyl bedding while you are at it.